My kids decided they "needed" scarves so they could look like mama. I was all set to make them one. Figured I'd stitch one up.
"No mama, one like this".
Oh, they wanted knitted. I can knit and crochet, it's just not my fave.
"Okay, I'll do it."
"No mama, you're not good at that stuff."
They asked my neighbor instead, who whipped up something special for each of them. She delivered just what they 'needed' and we're all so thankful.