Everyone has a vision of what they thought parenthood would entail. Likely it didn't include scribbles on the wall, balls left on the stairs, broken treasures, cutting a huge chunk out of one's hair, playing "mixing" with ten 24 piece puzzles, projectile vomiting, etc....but surely those are memories to chuckle about later. With any luck, life as a parent includes mostly the good stuff, including the stuff of what you dreamed of when you were thinking about your future decades ago.
For me, it was and is reading. I always dreamed of having children who enjoyed reading, would listen to the stories and snuggle in. My
obsession collection of books proves my vision. I totally have books from my childhood and books that I purchased in high school for my 'someday' kids. I have hundreds, maybe even thousands (and no, I'm not exaggerating) of books. Shelves upon shelves, the attic and my work storing more. Plus we frequent the library. I'm so not a minimalist with books. We read them though, I promise!
I am so thankful I have kids who enjoy reading with me. I don't think there's been a single day since either of their births that hasn't involved books. The days we're home, it's not unusual for us to spend 2 hours reading together. It's my favorite part of the day. No matter how busy we are, I try so hard to make lots of time for books. It's when I try to pinch myself and remember how lucky I am. It's the stuff I smile about as I drift off to sleep at night.

Thankful my husband snapped a couple cell phone pics of me doing my favorite part of parenting. Our reading sessions won't last forever, so I'm going to remember to enjoy them each day.
We've always enjoyed books as well. It makes one's life so much better. I miss reading to my boy. Unfortunately, he seems to think he's outgrown it. (Sigh.) Enjoy these precious times.
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